Emor - Shabbat 4/30/11
In Emor (literally “speak,”) God tells Moses to speak to the kohanim (priests) and tell them about the special laws that pertain to them and to the priestly service in the Sanctuary. The second half of Emor then takes us through the cycle of the yearly Jewish calendar, hitting all of the highlights: the weekly Shabbat; the Passover Festival in Nissan, which was originally the first month of the year; the counting of the Omer for forty-nine days followed by Shavuot; a “remembrance of shofar blasts,” as Rosh Hashanah was initially called; a “solemn fast” ten days later; the week-long Sukkot Festival; and finally Shemini Atzeret on the heels of Sukkot.There is an incident at the end of Emor which always reminds me of my childhood, when my mother would sternly remind us before we went out, "Remember—you’re representing the Jewish people!” I always found this a bit hyperbolic, if not downright problematic; why should anything I or my siblings did reflect on anyone other than ourselves? Surely, I thought, in the unlikely event that any of us actually committed some terrible act while out with our friends, no one would think to impugn our entire community or religion because of it.
It turns out, though, that at least one commentator took my mother’s point of view. At the end of the parasha, an Israelite is punished after blaspheming God's name. In telling us about this person, the Torah records that his mother’s name was Sh’lomit, daughter of Divri, from the tribe of Dan. The obvious question is, why so many identifiers? Or put another way, why drag poor Grandpa Divri into this mess??
Rashi explains that this episode indicates how one can bring shame not only upon himself when he acts wrongly, but also upon his family and community. Despite our efforts to avoid stereotyping and collective punishment, people will instinctively pass judgment upon those who are associated with a given offender.
At least we can rest assured, says Rashi, that the opposite is also true; one who acts righteously brings praise and honor to those around him. These are important lessons when considering how we can positively represent our community at all times, as important as the other lesson I (re)learned this week—Mother always knows best!